Love Of Your Life

It’s rare to be pleasantly surprised by a title that has been saddled, in this day and age, with a forced streaming debut. It seems like, more often than not, the films that haven’t been given the privilege of at least doing a dry run in theaters, or heading to a festival, end up disappointing. Amazon certainly has had its fair share of oblivious crap that it has thrust upon the world in terms of streaming-only releases, without having to do much thinking at all. The Runner, The Devil’s Mouth, War of the Worlds, Heads of State, and The Bluff all come to mind within the last year or so. So, given the fact that The Fire Inside was an Amazon title that they picked up out of a festival, and Rachel Morrison clearly got an opportunity to follow that up courtesy of Amazon’s investment in her as a filmmaker, I should have probably given her more of the benefit of the doubt. Because Love of Your Life is actually a pretty solid, emotional, romantic drama about life, love, loss, and discovering yourself. It’s one of those rare streaming surprises that reminds you why these smaller, character-driven films still deserve to exist, even if the theatrical marketplace has seemingly decided otherwise.

The Fire Inside director gives Margaret Qualley an excellent platform as Maya, a woman whose life we follow across a number of years, beginning with her meeting the man who will become the love of her life, played by Gabriel Basso. It’s a rather charming meet-cute, and the first third of the film is largely dedicated to this blossoming relationship, allowing us to see just how wonderful they are together, and how effortlessly they seem to fit into each other’s lives. Maya works in the medical field, and as their relationship progresses, we see the impending engagement, her introduction to his mother, played by Catherine Keener, and the establishment of a life together that seems almost too good to be true. We also meet Jason, a coworker and friend of Maya’s played by Patrick Schwarzenegger, who will continue to bounce around throughout the story. The film is structured around Maya’s age, advancing through different periods of her life, something I wasn’t necessarily paying attention to at the beginning, so I can’t tell you exactly how old she was when we first met her. But once you pick up on what Morrison is putting down, you realize that we’re not simply watching a romance unfold. We’re watching a woman’s life unfold, with all the changes, complications, and unexpected turns that come with it. And then, without spoiling anything, the film reveals what it’s really about, sending Maya on a journey that becomes considerably more complicated than the romantic drama we were initially presented with.

I think the question at the heart of Love of Your Life is whether or not it’s possible to have two loves of your life. If you’ve already met that person, the one you believed you were destined to spend the rest of your days with, is there room for someone else? That’s essentially the question posed by the character played by Aaron Pierre, who enters Maya’s life years down the road. He has a daughter, which immediately introduces a different dynamic into their relationship, and Maya, who hasn’t exactly been throwing herself back into the dating pool, finds herself attracted to someone who is charming enough to make her reconsider what she wants out of life. But what works so wonderfully well about the film is that Maya’s existence doesn’t hinge upon finding male companionship. She’s perfectly capable of surviving without it, and she’s also resistant to it at times. This isn’t a woman desperately seeking marriage because society has convinced her that she needs a husband and children in order to be fulfilled. She’s not being pressured by an overbearing mother or sibling to settle down, start a family, or make the kinds of choices that would satisfy someone else’s expectations. She’s essentially free to pursue her career, make her own decisions, and determine when, or even if, she’s ready to open herself up to another relationship. When she eventually takes those steps, it’s not because she has to. It’s because she wants to. And that distinction is incredibly important to the film.

Margaret Qualley is doing some excellent work here, and I think Love of Your Life is a particularly beautiful platform for what she’s capable of as an actress. She’s had some big-screen swings that haven’t necessarily gone her way, like Drive-Away Dolls, where even if she looks good in the film, the experience itself can be difficult to get through. Love of Your Life is difficult to get through for an entirely different reason, particularly if you’re someone who needs to keep a box of tissues nearby whenever you watch an emotional drama. Qualley has to carry the audience through a substantial portion of Maya’s life, and she manages to make each stage feel like a natural evolution of the same woman. There’s a difference between portraying someone who is happy, someone who is grieving, someone who is simply trying to get through the day, and someone who is finally willing to take another chance on happiness. Qualley understands those distinctions, and Morrison gives her the opportunity to explore them without making every moment feel like an obvious attempt to manufacture an awards clip. There’s a lot of emotional weight resting on her shoulders, and she handles it beautifully. What I particularly appreciate is that Maya never feels like she’s been reduced to a single defining experience. She’s still a person with a career, friendships, desires, and an identity that exists outside of whichever man happens to be standing beside her.

The supporting cast is also quite strong, beginning with Gabriel Basso, who is affable and effortlessly charming. He’s meant to sweep you off your feet, and he does. He feels like the kind of wonderful, supportive husband that anybody, regardless of gender, would be lucky to have. There’s nothing particularly antagonistic about him, and when Maya finds herself in situations where her work becomes increasingly important, he does his absolute best to support her. Patrick Schwarzenegger is also in an interesting position here, particularly coming off something like The White Lotus, because there was a time when you probably wouldn’t have expected someone named Schwarzenegger to be offered a role like this. Jason is simply a sympathetic best friend, someone who doesn’t need to dominate the narrative or turn his relationship with Maya into something more complicated than it needs to be. He gets a terrific moment delivering a toast during the engagement celebration, and he continues to pop up throughout the film, offering his concern and making himself available whenever Maya needs someone to talk to. There’s something refreshing about allowing a male character to exist in a woman’s life without making his presence entirely dependent upon romantic possibilities. Schwarzenegger is proving himself to be a much more versatile performer than some people probably expected, and this is another example of that.

Then there’s Aaron Pierre, who has recently been lighting up the world with Lanterns, stepping into a role that comes with a rather tall order. He’s essentially being asked to follow Gabriel Basso, someone the audience has already connected with and fallen in love with, and convince us that Maya might be capable of finding something equally meaningful with another person. That’s not an easy assignment, particularly when the film has already invested so much time in establishing its original romance. But Pierre has a different kind of charm, and giving his character a daughter helps establish that this relationship isn’t simply an attempt to recreate something Maya once had. He’s bringing an entirely different life into the equation, with different responsibilities, different expectations, and the possibility of a future that Maya might never have considered for herself. I think that brings out another side of Qualley’s performance, allowing Maya to continue growing rather than simply returning to an earlier version of herself. And while Catherine Keener has relatively nominal screen time, certainly nothing comparable to her previously Academy Award-nominated work, she still manages to make an impression. There’s at least one terrific scene that has the emotional intensity of one of those standing-in-the-rain, shouting-at-someone moments, where the pain of everything that has happened finally comes pouring out. It’s heartbreaking, and Keener makes the most of the opportunity.

Now, I’ve deliberately avoided addressing the elephant in the room, because I think there’s a significant plot development that audiences should be allowed to discover for themselves. Unfortunately, as soon as I saw that elephant, clocked its giant trunk entering the film, and heard those enormous footsteps approaching in the form of a major plot device, I immediately thought, oh shit, I know exactly where this is going. And I was right. That’s probably the biggest thing holding Love of Your Life back from being something I would consider among the ten best films of the year. At a certain point, the trajectory becomes incredibly obvious, and while the performances remain compelling, the story doesn’t necessarily have many surprises left to offer. That doesn’t mean the emotional impact is diminished entirely, because knowing where a film is headed and actually experiencing the journey are two very different things. But I do think Morrison is working with material that occasionally leans into familiar territory, and there are moments when you can practically see the machinery of the screenplay positioning everyone for the next emotional development. The film is at its best when it allows the characters to exist naturally, rather than when it seems determined to remind us just how much life can hurt.

I was reminded almost immediately of We Live in Time, the Andrew Garfield and Florence Pugh film, particularly in terms of the relationship dynamics and the way the story explores love across different periods of someone’s life. I’m not suggesting the two films follow exactly the same beats, because they don’t, and I certainly don’t want to give anything away by drawing comparisons that are too specific. But there’s a similar emotional atmosphere, and I suspect audiences who connected with that film will find plenty to appreciate here. At the same time, I think Love of Your Life is one of those movies that requires a little consideration before recommending it to absolutely everyone. There are people who will find this deeply moving, and there are others for whom it will hit far too close to home. I know some of those people personally, and watching this film occasionally felt like seeing their experiences painfully realized on screen. So while I broadly recommend the film, there are certain people who could come up to me, ask whether or not they should watch it, and, knowing what they’ve been through, I would tell them absolutely not. Please find something else. Not because it’s a bad movie, but because sometimes a film can be so effective at exploring a particular kind of pain that the experience becomes more punishing than rewarding. That’s not a criticism of the filmmaking. It’s simply an acknowledgment that not every good film is necessarily the right film for every audience.

I really like what Rachel Morrison is doing here, and I hope Amazon continues giving her opportunities to tell stories like this. I enjoyed The Fire Inside, even though I had a feeling that film wasn’t going to touch the Academy Awards, despite the wonderful work being done by Ryan Destiny and Brian Tyree Henry. It just never seemed like something that was going to land on the Academy’s radar, which is unfortunate, because there was a lot to appreciate about it. I also kind of wish the film had retained its original title, Flint Strong, because The Fire Inside feels so incredibly generic. Love of Your Life is another title that doesn’t exactly distinguish itself in a crowded streaming marketplace, but the film underneath that title is considerably better than I anticipated. Morrison clearly has an interest in character-driven stories, particularly those centered on women navigating circumstances that are not entirely within their control. And while the two films are quite different, there’s something consistent about her approach to these characters. She gives them room to struggle, room to make decisions, and room to exist as people rather than simply vehicles for inspirational or emotional storytelling. I appreciate that, and I think she’s establishing herself as a filmmaker worth following.

There’s also some really lovely audio description attached to Love of Your Life, which is particularly important given the way the film tracks Maya across different stages of her life. I can’t be entirely certain how much time passes, because I didn’t catch her age at the beginning, but it certainly feels like we’re following her for at least a decade, and potentially considerably longer. The audio description does a wonderful job of helping establish those transitions, allowing the audience to follow the physical and emotional changes in Maya as the years pass. It’s the kind of film where those details matter, because the passage of time is an essential component of the storytelling. And thankfully, the film never reaches a point where we’re suddenly expected to believe that everyone has aged so dramatically that they need to be buried underneath old-age makeup. The passage of time feels natural, and the audio description complements that approach rather than simply announcing that another year has gone by.

If you already have Prime Video, I would absolutely encourage you to check out Love of Your Life, provided you’re prepared for the emotional journey it has in store. It’s one of those rare blessings in the streaming landscape where a title that arrives without much fanfare turns out to be genuinely worth your time. I was also reminded of Voicemails for Isabel, the Netflix film with Zoey Deutch that came out earlier this year, which similarly surprised me by being considerably better than I expected. Both films have that same sort of romantic, emotionally driven atmosphere, and both feel like the kinds of movies that, in a different generation, could have done perfectly fine in theaters. There’s an audience for these stories, even if the studios increasingly seem convinced that audience would rather discover them at home. Sadly, we’ll never really know what kind of theatrical life Love of Your Life might have enjoyed. What I do know is that Margaret Qualley delivers an excellent performance, Rachel Morrison continues to demonstrate her strengths as a filmmaker, and Amazon has finally delivered another streaming exclusive that doesn’t feel like something it was trying to hide from the public. Love of Your Life may be a little too predictable to become one of my favorite films of the year, but it’s a beautiful reminder that finding the love of your life doesn’t necessarily mean your story has reached its final chapter.

Fresh: 7.8/10

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